Toby was born and raised outside of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She earned a BFA in Theatre. She continued doing stage in New York and Los Angeles. Recently she was in Sex, Relationships and Sometimes Love. Toby has been on TV shows "Doctors on CBS and a nurse for Season 2 on Private Practice. She was also a wife in the independent Film, "Day's Eye." Toby was also the lead in A.I.D.S.K.R.E.W music video, "Crying Shame."